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Profile
Problems
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Travel · May
9, 2000
FBI
agents have made careers of it. (Then they've gone on to make small fortunes
from writing books about it.)
The New Jersey State Police
have got into some serious hot water for using it to stop drivers on the
Turnpike.
The FAA and the airlines walk a precarious
line when applying it.
NBC has a television series
about it.
Ethnic and civil rights organizations like the National
Association of Arab Americans, the National
Association for the Advancement of Colored People, and the American
Civil Liberties Union are offended by it and fighting against it.
Yet still, we all do it. We can't help ourselves. It's built-in. Like
it or not, we develop profiles to evaluate the trustworthiness
of the people we meet.
I have developed a
profile of people who cause a warning flag to go up - and so have you.
When I travel, my profile of a dangerous person helps me avoid danger
- and so does yours help you.
Yes, there are the
hopelessly naïve, who have no sense of when they are in danger, and there
are bigots who see danger in everybody who doesn't look or act like themselves.
But between these extremes are profiles that help assure our self-preservation
while we are on the road. When we meet people, we compare their looks
and behaviors against our profiles shady characters. If there is a match,
our inner voice tells us to shy away from these people.
Here's the profile that puts me on guard: A not-so-old man, who is more
interested in me and my travel plans than in telling me about himself
and his plans. Here's why:
Youth. Robbery, the most common violent crime perpetrated against
travelers, is not an old geezer's pursuit.
Male. Take a look at the FBI's Ten
Most Wanted Fugitives or the 15
runners-up. See any women's faces?
Interest in me. This is a particularly telling characteristic in
that, for most people, their favorite conversational topic revolves around
themselves.
Are all the people who fit this profile crooks? No, very few are. Jeez,
the same profile describes a skilled psychologist. But by and large, this
profile has served me well by alerting me to potential danger.
Of course, having a profile is only half the story. For it to be of any
value to me, I have to apply it. Gavin
de Becker makes a good case for our built-in radar in his apt-titled
book, The Gift of Fear, and stresses the importance of taking action.
Most people who become
victims have a profile. They just don't act on it. (How many times do
you hear or read of a victim saying, "Ya know, officer, something about
that guy just didn't seen right.")
My advice: Listen to your inner voice and be prepared to act on what you
hear.
Dr. Terry Riley is a psychologist and travel security
authority. His column appears on Wednesdays. He is author of the popular
book Travel Can Be Murder. Visit his site at http://www.appliedpsychology.com
or e-mail him at terry@ticked.com.
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